Communication is the foundation of everything we do. Whether you leave the house or not, you still communicate with others daily, be it online or in person. How well you get along with people hinges on how well you communicate. How successful you are in life hinges on how well you communicate.
Communication is important in every aspect of your life. Yes, I will repete. Communication is importent in every aspect of your life. From professional to friendships to relationships to sex to self love and so on… Your satisfaction will directly depend on how well you communicate.
- If you find yourself in constent drama, did you communicate?
- If sex with your partner is lacking, did you communicate?
- If you can’t find a partner, did you communicate?
- If you feel overwelmed at the job, wait for it….did you communicate?
There are a few ‘rules’ that you can apply to all of your communications.
work or professional communication.
Often, we waste a lot of time and energy communicating when we don’t actually know why we’re bothering. So, think about what you would like to accomplish? At a networking event, why are you there, and what are you looking to get out of it? When you speak to somebody, why are you talking to them? Purposful intentional communication with people will reflect in your business.
When others initiate a conversation, consider why it’s taking place. If you can’t understand why try to gently guide the dialogue to determine the why. The purpose of this is to focus and understand the why to avoid rabbit trails and side issues that detract from the manner at hand. Your time is important, and effective communication is effective time management.
Your time is important, and effective communication is effective time management. Share on XWe live in a society of information overload so simplify your messages. You might use five sentences, but you can probably say it with one. When you are doing business or trying to market your products or services, soming things up will work well for you.
You may want to email Facts. People often lose concentration when they are being given facts and figures verbally. If you’re dealing with a finance issue, statistics, or otherwise, opt for emailing this information so the other person can easily look back on the numbers when necessary.
Personal life
The above can also be applied to your personal life, even idle chit-chat can have some type of purpose, whether it’s bonding or getting to know someone. When out to make friends or meet a partner, what may look like idel talk is really an avanue to get to know somebody better. In this case, you will still hopefully know what you want in a friend or partner, then explore conversation to see if there is any common ground.
If you are on dating apps or part of speed dating or match making services, communication will be the deciding factor on how close you get to the person you are looking for. Don’t just look at the picture, read the bio. Don’t just leave your bio emty, fill that thing up!
When its time for some love making, don’t just assume that you know how it will go. Don’t assume that just because you know that plug “A” fits into socket “B”, that its enough. Talk to each other. Communicate with each other. That will boost your sex before you will need any other solution.
In-Person Communication
Have you ever fallen out with someone over text message? Or watched a fight unfold on social media because one person read someone else’s tone wrong? If you’re dealing with a highly emotional issue, then it should be addressed in person. If it’s impossible to do so in-person, at least do so via video call. This goes for positive and negative emotions. If you’re delivering great news then you want everyone to get sucked into your positive energy.
As far as bad news or negative conversations go, it will be received better if you do the job in-person. Even though this may be hard, being able to handle things face to face is a sign of manhood and over all emotional control. You also will avoid the back and forth that can happen if it is done through other means.
Listening is part of communication
Stop spending so much time doing all the talking and start listening. Unless you are the one who came to the table to start a conversation, give others the respect they’re due when they are trying to communicate their ideas or feelings. Don’t dominate conversations with your motor-mouth. Communication is a two way street. Actually, its an avanue. If you are doing all the talking, then you can sit in your room facing the wall and do that. If you are interested in productive communication, you will listen, then speak with intention and with what the other person said in mind.
Boost your communication skills
Whether you want to get better in one-on-one communication or public speaking, I can help you win the deal or make that connection. Don’t let communication be the reason why you are not getting what you want in life. That’s one challenge you can beat!